一点一滴 . 写下感受

^^

2009-10-02T23:24:00.000-07:00

hello...mummy..^^ *hehes
shu min is here..
Don't worry about me...

And they are my Roomates

sobs..mid sem exam is coming soon..
i got to study...bye bye ^^
miss you all...

i
love
u
all
mummy
and
daddy

from,
s.h.u.m.i.n

Tuesday with Morrie

2009-06-16T20:51:00.000-07:00

Mitch Albom's international bestseller "Tuesdays with Morrie" is a must-read book for anyone interested in life's lessons.

Morrie was truly an incredible man.. & Mitch Albom is such an amazing author! my favourite author ever.. Tuesdays with Morrie is the by far the one & only book that i've ever enjoyed so much.. this book, or better yet, Morrie, taught me a whole new meaning to my life. I really got to get the five people you meet in heaven & for one more day.

Rest in peace, Morrie.

Life's Greatest lessons..

Morrie's Quotes ^^

On Culture:

"The culture we have does not make people feel good about themselves. And you have to be strong enough to say if the culture doesn't work, don't buy it." (p.42)

* * *

"People are only mean when they're threatened, and that's what our culture does...And when you get threatened, you start looking out only for yourself. You start making money a god. It is all part of this culture." (p.42)

On Tension of Opposites:

"Life is a series of pulls back and forth. You want to do one thing, but you are bound to do something else." (p.40)

* * *

"A tension of opposites, like a pull on a rubber band. And most of us live somewhere in the middle." (p.40)

On Love:

"Love wins. Love always wins." (p.40)

* * *

"Love each other or die." (p.163)

On Forgiveness:

"Forgive yourself before you die. Then forgive others." (p.164)

* * *

"We...need to forgive ourselves...For all the things we didn't do. All the things we should have done. You can't get stuck on the regrets of what should have happened." (p.166)

On Getting Meaning into Life:

"So many people walk around with a meaningless life. They seem half-asleep, even when they're busy doing things they think are important. This is because they're chasing the wrong things. The way you get meaning into your life is to devote yourself to loving others, devote yourself to your community around you, and devote yourself to creating something that gives you purpose and meaning." (p.43)

On Most Important Thing in Life:

"The most important thing in life is to learn how to give out love, and to let it come in." (p.52)

On Trust:

"...if you are ever going to have other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them, too--even when you're in the dark." (p.61)

On Friendship:

"...we've had thirty-five years of friendship. You don't need speech or hearing to feel that." (p.71)

On Death and Ambition:

"...the truth is...if you accept that you can die at any time--then you might not be as ambitious as you are." (p.83)

On Family:

"The fact is, there is no foundation, no secure ground, upon which people may stand today if it isn't the family." (p.91)

* * *

"If you don't have the support and love and caring and concern that you get from a family, you don't have much at all. Love is so supremely important." (p.91)

On Having Children:

"There is no experience like having children...If you want the experience of having complete responsibility for another human being, and to learn to love and bond in the deepest way, then you should have children." (p.93)

On Material Things:

"Don't cling to things, because everything is impermanent." (p.103)

* * *

"You can't substitute material things for love or for gentleness or for tenderness or for a sense of comradeship." (p.125)

On Emotions:

"If you hold back on the emotions--if you don't allow yourself to go all the way through them--you can never get to being detached, you're too busy being afraid." (p.104)

On Dying and Living:

"When you learn how to die, you learn how to live." (p.104)

* * *

"Don't let go too soon but, but don't hang on too long." (p.162)

On Being a Child:

"We all know how to be a child. It's inside all of us. For me, it's just remembering how to enjoy it." (p.116)

On Youth:

"...I know what a misery being young can be, so don't tell me it's so great." (p.117)

* * *

"...in addition to all the miseries, the young are not wise. They have very little understanding about life." (p.118)

On Aging:

"Aging is ot just decay...It's growth." (p.118)

* * *

"If you're always battling against getting older, you're always going to be unhappy, because it will happen anyhow." (p.118,119)

* * *

"You have to find what's good and true and beautiful in your life as it is now. Looking back makes you competitive. And, age is not a competitive issue." (p.120)

* * *

"How can I be envious of where you are--when I've been there myself." (p.121)

On Money and Power:

"Money is not a substitute for tenderness, and power is not a substitute for tenderness." (p.125)

On Status and Showing Off:

"...if you're trying to show off for people at the top, forget it. They will look down on you anyhow. And if you're trying to show off for people at the bottom, forget it. They will only envy you. Status will get you nowhere. Only an open heart will allow you to float equally between everyone." (p.127)

On Immortality:

"...love is how you stay alive, even after you are gone." (p.133)

On Marriage:

"I've learned this much about marriage. You get tested. You find out who you are, who the other person is, and how you accommodate or don't." (p.149)

* * *

"...there are a few rules I know to be true about love and marriage: If you don't respect the other person, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you don't know how to compromise, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. If you can't talk openly about what goes on between you, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. And if you don't have a common set of values in life, you're gonna have a lot of trouble. Your values must be alike." (p.149)

* * *

"I think marriage is a very important thing to do, and you're missing a hell of a lot if you don't try it." (p.149)

On Shortsightedness:

"...no matter where you live, the biggest defect we human beings have is our shortsightedness. We don't see what we could be. We should be looking at our potential, stretching ourselves into everything we can be come." (p.156)

On Needing Others:

"In the beginning of life, when we were infants, we need others to survive, right? And at the end of life, when you get like me, you need others to survive, right? But here's the secret: in between, we need others as well." (p.157)

On Being Number Two:

"What's wrong with being number two?" (p.159)

On the Important Questions:

"As I see it, they have to do with love, responsibility, spirituality, awareness." (p.175)

On Death :

"Death ends a life, not a relationship." (p.174)

On Relationships:

"There is no formula to relationships. They have to be negotiated in loving ways, with room for both parties, what they want and what they need, what they can do and what their life is like." (p.177,178)

Mummy..Happy Birthday!!!

2009-03-10T06:01:00.000-07:00

SURPRISE!!!

生日快乐

妈妈... 祝你生日快乐... 永远青春美丽..哈哈小女儿舒敏有话说,
妈眯... 真的谢谢你所有的付出...但希望在你能真的真的开心... 我知道我很挑剔,但你都很配合我... 我知道我很霸道...有时啦..但我现在都蛮乖..只是很多坏习惯... 会尽量改... 所以我想要说的是.. 妈妈,我很爱你... 可是每当我说时你都会担心我是不是有事情发生才说.. 不是这样啦, 有时是会非常感动所以就说出来!!!

现在, 你的二女儿舒慧有话说...
妈妈,谢谢你对我付出的爱与关怀,
在我身上付出的时间... 我在你身旁感到很安心... 我真的真的爱你...(妈妈别太高兴) 哈哈:D 特别是这两年...我非常满足... 我知道我的坚持让你受伤... 我会尽力做个让你放心的女儿... 哈哈...我真的不习惯说那三个字

接下来, 即将成家的大女儿舒韵有话要说...
妈, 我渐渐体会到你的辛苦... 包容我的过错, 妈妈,我爱你.. 真的很想念你精心为我准备的食物... 在外头真的吃腻...现在还要服侍别人..哈哈.. 但在着特别的日子祝你一切幸福..快乐..

最后是小儿子,凯杰
妈妈, sorry..我知道我说话伤你的心, 但你一直都是让我引以为荣的妈妈, 生日快乐.. 笑口常开...

谢谢妈妈..我们爱你!!!

from all of us...
Shu Yun,Shu Hui,Shu Min & Kai Jie

写给爸妈的话....

2009-03-08T18:54:00.000-07:00

我曾经读过一封email但里面的内容我仍然记的
很难会有料的email让我还铭记在心...xD
里面的内容是这样....

有一天一个有智慧的教授问他学生以下的问题...
'为什么人生气时说话都用喊的?'
所有学生想了好久,其中有一位同学说:因为我们都丧失了'冷静',说以我们都用喊的..

教授又问'但是为什么别人在你旁边而已,你还是用喊的,难道不能小声的说吗?为什么为什么要用喊的?

几乎所有同学都七嘴八舌的说了一堆,但是没有一个答案令教授满意的.

最后教授解释说
'当两个人在生气时候,心的距离是很遥远的,而为了掩饰当中的距离使对方能听见,于是必须用喊的..
但是在喊的同时人会更生气,更生气距离就越远,距离越远就又要喊更大声..

教授接着继续说:'当两个人在相爱时会怎么样呢?情况刚好相反,不但不用喊的,而且说话都轻声细语,为什么?

因为他们的心都很近,心与心之间完全没有距离,所以相念中的两个人通常都是耳语式的说话,但是心中的爱越深,到后来根本不需要语言.只用眼神就可以传情,而那时候心与心之间早已没有所谓的距离...

最后.教授终结...

当两个人争吵时,不要让心的距离越远,更不要说让心的距离越员的话,自然过了几天,等要心的距离已经没那么远时,再好好说吧...

是不是很有意义呢??
所以要铭记在心....
'不要说让心更加遥远的话!!!'
这是每个人常犯的错,也错的最离谱....

我的新朋友 xD

2009-03-07T23:02:00.000-08:00

我先声明我没有偷懒没教书...
这是在他们美术节拍摄的...哈哈

一年级的学生我都很喜欢...
首先是一体班的小朋友
第一位,我见过最有责任感的小孩
小班长
我最喜欢的"林俊杰",最爱表演唱歌..成名曲'我就是superman' :D

不是我偏心这两位学生...哈哈
下面是全班学生的照片...

可爱吧....
但老师更可爱...哈哈..死不要脸 @@

林老师就是我啦

2009-03-07T21:10:00.000-08:00

哈哈:D

真的万万也没想过..
我也当了老师...
才刚考完我的大考~
刚到家隔天就要上班了..
我去了我的母校当临教
反正有七个月的长假...闲着也是闲着...@ @
就到学校看看咯

其实..相隔六年..也没差很多..

这是我庆幸的...
遇见当年教导我的老师...
感觉怪怪的..有点尴尬
也遇见小学朋友也来当临教...哈哈那么巧!!

因为是下午班,所以我终于可以睡迟了...
想到为了准备考试天天迟睡,
不像人样...都要累死了

那么...就show几张关与三小的照片...

课室走廊

三楼外观

骗人的,以前是2006年要成为优雅的学习天地...

依我来看一定是不成功...哈哈

回顾去年

2009-03-07T21:07:00.000-08:00

二零零年十二月三十一日,我终于完成我在Aimst的考试.
那十个月离开家里到外学习真的让我学到了很多...
第一次,在完全人生地不熟的地方...
说真的,也许对别人来说那没什么
但去了那里我才知道...我适应环境会比别人困难...+.+
在那里,人际关系,学业问题.....
我自己必须解决
第一....与人相处...要多多包容...
第二...凡事不要要求太高...
这两点真的非常重要...
哈哈...这么写的这么老套???
管他的....那已经过去了....2009...全新的我来了...